Christmas spent with family Gaiii ...
Gaia wanted to visit family, especially that due to the turmoil in the work could not take leave for half a year. Inia wanted to visit the grandparents. Both wanted a little break, a break from everyday life. I was not there half the year. I did not give advice to find excuses for absence from this particular trip. Well, I went ... If
collect together all my beliefs, my habits, my habits. My whole life experience. And after the meeting to take me to a place where life goes on exactly the opposite. Where everything happens exactly as I try to NOT do.
It's not that I'm pessimistic since the beginning of the set. Except that ... Even after five minutes I realize that nothing had changed and nothing will change. They do not do it specifically, consciously. Even the sisters Gaiii proving that it is better wiser. It flows from them, from their nature and habits acquired, learned from the environment. I will not do nothing. Do not make them look a little differently to certain things. And it's not just older, but younger. I can either pretend that some things can not see and did not hear, or just suffer for a few days.
In fact, this conclusion could close this topic, but I simply have to write about something.
We are accustomed to Gaia that we ourselves INIA. Aside from vacation with his parents Gaiii, because there is still always had Inia mum in the vicinity, is the first time after the birth of Ini, where me and Gaia were without Ini, there was a few months ago. After four years from birth Ini. I'm not counting kindergarten, because then I'm Gaia and we're not together. We know that raising the issue and deal with INIA, we can count only on themselves. End of story. However
Gaiii sister has an uncanny ability to get rid of the trouble, or child care. I do not do it, because she must, for example, do something else. He also does it in moments when you just do not want it. Of course, some form of justification is its advanced pregnancy, only she does so from the beginning. He does, because I can. The child will either mother-or her parents. Not that they want (although it's certainly too), but are simply brought in such a situation, they have to want it.
child roars, though it roars a total understatement. Rather howls. Give him milk, pobawcie it, try to put him to sleep. Come on, one to another! Husband? My husband is not on the occupation of the child. Besides, he was brought up in such a climate, it is now only confirm and if it has anything to do with the child, it is lost.
now is offended by the whole world; This shows to all and sundry, because in-law, and her parents said that when the second child will be hard for them to help look. For what she has done? You had to think, damn, think! The second child (the term for the month) showed up when you least expect. I mean the stork brought because of such a thing as family planning is not heard ... As a result, the house had not yet finished, work is underway and the first child was still nieodchowane. I really do not blame and her mother in law, and her parents that she did not smile to them to care for two children at the same time: the annual infant and child, which 99 percent of the time moaning. But no Gaiii sister. Is so confident that the straight, with guests, complaining that so it continually said that there will be grandchildren, it will be fun, and now none of them wants to help with the baby and you will need to hire a nanny, to spend the money. Some can be insolent. Some can take every opportunity to be better. Uh ....
general approach to her children, maternity, tacierzyństwa and creating a family is so radically different from mine, that just meant I caught often, that's what I see and hear, is simply impossible!
And I am silent, because it does not say. I said once, in the beginning. I just need my scenes ...
Yes, I can survive it. A few days in a year or less fatigue and the crown of my head will not fall. But always I feel sorry that I'm with family Gaiii on two opposite poles ...
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